Monday, May 27, 2013

Branson. Silver Dollar City. Springfield.

(8-13 May 2013)

A few weekends ago the Hintzes and our little family headed down South for a little vacation.  When we got to Ozark we stopped in to have dinner at Lambert's.  It was kind of crazy trying to eat dinner with 2 babies and 4 little ones, but it was fun anyway.  I especially loved seeing Brie bravely raise her hand when the hot rolls came out.  Good ol' Home of the Throwed Rolls ;0)

(notice Alex's Cheetos face and fingers.  Oh boy :0))

The drive down was beautiful with all of the green rolling hills.  Thankfully the kids napped for most of the drive, but the last 45 minutes or so Elijah was screaming...he doesn't like being in his car seat and wouldn't take a bottle.  He had Brie in tears by the time we pulled up to where we were staying (Branson Towers Hotel) because it made her so sad to hear him crying  like that :0(  She ended up being sick for part of our trip and I think that, the excitement of traveling with friends, lots of road trip snacks and potential motion sickness) contributed to that.  Poor girl.  She, Elijah and I ended up spending part of a day in the hotel watching cartoons and napping so that she could get feeling better. 

Bry took Alex to Silver Dollar City for the morning (they did some smaller rides, tested a myriad of BBQ sauces and rode the train) then came to pick us up so we could spend the afternoon in the park.  Thankfully Brie was feeling much better by that point and was able to ride some of the kiddie rides!  I took Brie and Alex on a river rapid one (Lost River of the Ozarks)...Alex of course got splashed by all of the waterfalls and rapids and was crying by the end.  He was totally soaked and scared by the whole thing, poor kid. We got off the ride and I said, "let's go show Dad how wet we got!!"  That seemed to help a bit.  Other than that we just wandered around enjoying the fun western ambiance of the park and reliving some of Bry's childhood memories.  We got a funnel cake (oreo), Brie won a stuffed animal bear, and we spent the rest of the time riding some smaller rides with the kiddos.  Alex LOVED the Happy Frog ride and Brie and I did the swings (Magnificient Wave Carousel) together.  We finished off the day with me riding one of the "bigger" rides (Electro Spin).  The sun was starting to set and it felt like I was flying up over the trees....what a beautiful view and fun way to end the day.  It was such a pleasant afternoon with our little family. A BIG thanks to Bry's high school friend who got us free passes for the day!!!


Yes, that's Little Lij crying in the background.  
Filming and holding him wasn't quite working out :0(

After getting the kids down the Hintzes listened to our monitor so Bry & I could have a mini date.  We went and got peach cobbler and ice cream and listened to a man playing turn of the century type music (am I thinking right, Bry?) on a grand piano in the lobby.
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Saturday we had breakfast in our PJs at the hotel then spent the rest of the morning at the pool.  It was so cute to see the kids in their floaties swimming around (thank you Diana and Cynthia for lending us your Puddle Jumpers!), and so nice to relax in the hot tub too!  Once we were all ready and packed up we headed to Springfield.  Bry decided to take a scenic route so he could point out some memorable places from his childhood.  It took us quite a bit longer to get into town, but it was fun to let him reminisce (sorry Hintzes who were following us! ;0)).  

We went to Bass Pro to let the kids run around, see the COOL displays & live fish and to climb on the ATVs.  They were in heaven! Those were some of my favorite moments from the trip :0)  At that point the Hintzes headed back to St. Louis and we headed to Andy's for some frozen custard. (I wish we had been able to spend more time with the Hintzes, but the interactions we did have were fun.)  It's like Ted Drewe's, but they have chocolate custard.  So what did I order, the triple chocolate custard of course!  to. die. for.  Comme c'est délicieux :0)

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The rest of the time we spent with Ben & Ashley in the beautiful and spacious home they're now renting.  It was so wonderful to just let the kids do their thing...running here and there, out through the breezeway into the back yard.  It was great!

Ben & Ashley not only hosted us for a few nights, but also hosted a BBQ so Bry could reconnect with some Springfield friends. (Apparently we didn't get a picture of Taylor & Stephanie and Geni, and Rusty & Glenda Cane before they left.  Bummer.)  Although I don't know any of his friends very well, it was fun to see them again and catch up a bit...and be reminded that God puts specific people in our lives for different seasons and different reasons.  What would life be without good friends and family who support, strengthen and inspire us? 

the Allisons.

Bro. Zahn, Alex, Bry, Ben, Liam & Charlie Zahn.

Ashley, Me, Brie, Sarah and Autumn Zahn.

(Our three mothers-in-law were best friends here in Springfield and have since passed away.  It seemed special to be spending time together...almost as if we were carrying on the legacy of their friendship.  It'll be neat to meet the three of them someday.)

Saturday evening, after the BBQ, we put the TIRED kids down and Ben & Bry chatted while Ashley & I had a good ol' heart to heart.  Ashley, thank you for sharing, listening and giving words of encouragement.  It was SO wonderful to reconnect with you again!!

Sunday was Mother's Day.  Ben (& Bry) made us a delicious home-cooked meal (omelette, yogurt parfait with Ashley's homemade yogurt & granola and fruit AND toast with Ashley's homemade wheat bread).  Oh delish! And so nice to sleep in and not make breakfast ;0)  We attended church in the chapel that Bry attended as a boy.  It was cute to have him point out, that's where my family would often sit...and this is where I first passed the sacrament.  We even ran into a sweet older couple who had known Bry's family.  It was great to listen to the talks and attend church, but I have to mention that Elijah was really making sure I was doing my motherly duties on Mother's Day ;0)  He blew out of his diaper twice and spit up all over me three times!

That evening we went over to the Petersen's for a laid back dinner (eat what and when you want) while the family did a Google Hangout with their brother Jarom who is on an LDS mission in Florida.  At one point I was outside, the sun was beginning to set and was casting a beautiful golden and cheery light on the surroundings and a pleasant breeze was blowing (I've realized that most of my favorite moments are outside with beautiful weather and a slight breeze :0)).  For whatever reason it made me think of Bry's Mom, Vicki.  It seemed fitting to be back in Springfield, where most of Bry's memories of his Mom were made, on Mother's Day.  We ended up driving past the two homes that they lived in and Bry told us a bit about Grandma Vicki...baking cookies and brownies, loving and serving others.  It was a sweet way to end the day.


Monday morning we enjoyed the nice weather: blew bubbles, did wagon rides, colored with sidewalk chalk and I did mini photo shoot of Ari.  What a beautiful blond, blue-eyed girl!  Before we left Bry, Alex and Ben went and got us carne asada burritos from the Purple Burrito. Muy, muy rico. Yum.  MUCHAS gracias :0)


As always, it was hard to say goodbye!  We sure love those Petersens.  If only we could spend more time together, but I can't complain...I feel so blessed that we live in Missouri and get to do these fun little weekend trips occasionally.  They are good for the soul :0)

And there you have it, our first official vacation as a family of five.  It was sweet to be making so many wonderful memories with my kiddos over Mother's Day weekend.  I have SO much to learn as a Mom.  Most days I feel like I'm in the refiner's fire and half the time I feel like I'm getting burnt ;0), but I really love those sweet kidoodles and am SO grateful to be their Mom.  (And I'm so grateful to my Mom and Grandma who have taught me SO much about being a Mother.  I think so often of how my Mom would handle things and the never-ending love that she shows for us kids.  I love you, Mom!)

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Our Savior's Love.

Matt's visit ended on a particularly sweet note.  Since none of the grandparents would be able to come visit any time soon and since we had no immediate plans of visiting Utah, we decided to bless Elijah while Matt was in town. 

For those of you who don't know, while we were in the hospital after Elijah's birth I was holding him in bed one day when the thought came to me to sing to him, "Our Savior's Love" and that it would be "his song" (Brie's song is "Beautiful Bright-Eyed Brie", Alex's is "We Love You"). Well as we were walking in (late ;0)) to Sacrament meeting,  "Our Savior's Love" happened to be the opening song.  It was a sweet "coincidence" that made his blessing day even more special!   

As I was jotting down notes during the blessing I suddenly recognized little coos coming through the microphone over the loud speaker...it was Elijah contently cooing while his Father pronounced the blessing.  It was so sweet. 

After church I snapped a few more pictures of Matt & little Lij.  It was so cute to see Lij looking intently at Matt and smiling.  Those two have a special connection and I'm sure they'll be great friends!

 (The collar on his blessing outfit was making him root so I changed him into these overalls afterwards.  For his blessing he wore the same outfit that Alex did on his blessing day.)

 

         Our Savior's Love.

1. Our Savior's love
Shines like the sun with perfect light,
As from above
It breaks thru clouds of strife.
Lighting our way,
It leads us back into his sight,
Where we may stay
To share eternal life.

2. The Spirit, voice
Of goodness, whispers to our hearts
A better choice
Than evil's anguished cries.
Loud may the sound
Of hope ring till all doubt departs,
And we are bound
To him by loving ties.

3. Our Father, God
Of all creation, hear us pray
In rev'rence, awed
By thy Son's sacrifice.
Praises we sing.
We love thy law; we will obey.
Our heav'nly King,
In thee our hearts rejoice.

Text: Edward L. Hart, b. 1916. (c) 1977 IRI
Music: Crawford Gates, b. 1921. (c) 1977 IR

Uncle Matt.

(25 April - 5 May 2013)


(sure love mon petit frère grand, Matt!)

It was SO fun having mon petit frère grand come and visit.  We LOVED having him in our home!  Highlights from his visit include:

getting Steak 'n Shake milk shakes (and shooters) * Elijah meeting Matt for the first time, instantly smiling and cooing...then spitting up and blowing out on him.  It was like he was excitedly trying to show Uncle Matt all that he was capable of doing ;0) * Matt helping me take the kiddos to a Dr.'s appt. * getting fun snacks from Costco * a fun-almost-surprise Circus Train birthday party for Matt, Alex and Adam * chatting with my little yet wise brother * Matt spending lots of time assembling Alex's new little Coupe * attending the ward fundraiser, Matt pitching in to win hot fudge sauce at the auction * Matt helping me with the kids!! * the Brandt family coming over for ice cream (the highly wanted hot fudge ;0)) and "Starry Night" lemon curd cupcakes * getting a Gooey Louie * Studio C clips (Driver's Ed :0)) * Elijah sleeping through the night!!! * taking a walk with the kiddos to the church, enjoying the beautiful Spring weather * picnic lunch outside the DUC * ice cream and Studio C (automated background check :0)) *  Goodwill Outlet * going to Best Buy--Microsoft surfaces, tablets, touch screens * Matt watching Brie & Alex AND Hansen boys while I "swapped" callings with Cegan * Ted Drewe's * Brie telling Matt that he looks good in anything.  She still has a crush on him ;0) * Maggiano's * Matt spending several hours getting Ruth Anne's old iPhone unlocked and up and running for me to use! * Matt & I doing a mini cooking competition with rice crispy treats (PB chocolate and apple pie) * watching "Wreck it Ralph" * all 6 of us doing the Jim Schoemel 5k Walk--pretty sure we came in very last, but we did it! *  3 free sandwiches from Jersey Mike's * Matt & Bry taking care of kids at Hintze's while I shot a wedding at the Botanical Gardens * Matt giving Bry a beautiful blessing * Matt standing in the circle for Elijah's baby blessing * doing crêpes for our last dinner together * watching Matt with the kids.  He's such a great uncle and will make a wonderful father some day * having so much Matt time all to ourselves!


 (One evening we all got dressed up a little and headed to Maggiano's for dinner, emphasizing to Brie what a special occasion it was.  She was so excited.  Alex and Brie were generally very polite and well-mannered, and we had a delightful and delicious dinner.)


Matt, want to make this birthday trip out to St. Louis a tradition?! ;0)  We sure love you!  You're welcome any time!

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Circus Train.

Last year we talked Matt into coming out to visit around his birthday.  Remember this 1-2-3 Cheerio birthday party?  Well he decided to come out again this year to visit at the end of April.  How could we not do another combined birthday celebration? ;0)  Considering that Alex and Adam LOVE trains and cars and trucks...animals...and POPCORN...I decided to do a Circus Train theme.  Laura was a great sport and let me run with my crazy scheme ;0)  In the end this is how it turned out...

I JUST realized that I had the month wrong on our "circus train posters"...oops.  Good thing they weren't really for advertising an event ;0)



Since the boys were going to have presents to open at the party we didn't want Matt to be empty-handed.  I decided to make him this little card with "tickets" for some of the main outings we had planned while he was here (dinner at Maggiano's, Ted Drewe's, Gooey Louie cake and trip to Goodwill Outlet).



Who: Gradens + Hintzes + Jon's parents & Brexton + Matt
When: Friday 26 April, 2013
Where: Hintze's place in Crestwood
What:  BBQ, "Wonder Pets" circus train episode + popcorn, cupcakes and presents

Some of the highlights from the party include: the kids eating in and being pushed around in their "box cars" (empty boxes from Costco ;0)) * yummy BBQ food * silly mustache straws * Fitz's rootbeer * the kids enthralled while watching movie & eating popcorn * Adam demolishing and polishing off a cupcake or two :0) * Alex, Matt & Adam swirling around on the toy ferris wheel * Matt being the star of the show * the kids dancing and twirling and chasing around with the streamers

Thanks, Jon & Laura, for hosting and manning the grill!



a Few Firsts.


(16 March 2013)

While Rach and Starla were in town Bry gave Elijah his first bath.  Unlike the other two, he didn't cry at all...and since then has only cried during one bath.  He typically just lays there and soaks it up contently ;0)

(18 April 2013)

A few weeks ago Brie gave Elijah his first {pumped} bottle of milk.  He took it like a champ...and Brie thoroughly enjoyed the whole experience.  She LOVES her baby brother!

dancing in my dreams.

From preschool to my freshman year of high school I participated in some sort of dance class.  The majority of those years it was "Creative Dance" a BYU modern dance program for children.  (Have I mentioned this before?)  I LOVED it!  Unfortunately when I was 11 I didn't get signed up in time to take the class and ended up doing a year of beginning ballet instead.  That was kind of the official end of creative dance for me.  I did audit a beginning modern dance class at BYU the semester after my mission, but haven't done much with it since.  I was never an amazing dancer, but the desire to dance has never left.  In fact many nights I dance in my dreams.  If not in real life, at least I make it happen then :0)

In any case, I try to foster a love for dance, movement and music within my kids.  It brings me joy to see them dance.  A few weeks ago it was a beautiful Spring evening so we took a family stroll.  Brie was flitting about, picking flowers, laying in the grass and dancing in the wind.  It really was so joyful.  


Monday, May 6, 2013

not ready yet.

Tonight I tried to put Elijah down twice, both times with no success.  I let him cry for a few minutes the second time, then decided that he must not be ready to sleep.  I brought him downstairs, sat down on the couch with my knees up and sat him in my lap facing me and asked him if he wanted to talk, like I often do if he's not settling down.  He was so quiet at first then Bry came down and he started talking away excitedly to Bry.  I stroked his sweet soft head as he cooed away.  It made me cry, what a sweet interchange.  I wonder if he had missed interacting with his Dad today and wanted to spend time with him before going to bed.  That Elijah sure has a sweet and sensitive spirit.  We love you!

oatmeal.

Oftentimes Bry will start a pot of oatmeal (usually good ol' fashioned oats, chia seeds...and sometimes flax seeds) in the mornings.  He let's it simmer while he gets ready and then I usually come down and add brown sugar, honey, fruit and spices.  He grabs some to take with him as he runs out the door and then the kids and I usually finish it off after they've gotten up.  This morning while eating breakfast I called Bry so the kids could tell him good morning and we could have a family prayer.  Brie thanked him for making the yummy oatmeal.  Bry commented that he just made the oatmeal but that I turned it into something yummy.  It got me thinking, that our oatmeal for breakfast was pretty representative of me and Bry, our roles and relationship.  He so often does the behind-the-scenes, non glamorous yet foundational and vital tasks that keep our household running.  Although I too have my own mundane tasks, I am often the one that gets to add some creativity and spice to life.  Both roles are different and both roles are important, and together they make something great!  I sure am grateful for my early-morning-oatmeal-making husband ;0)...and that we get to work side by side in this wonderful journey of life!