Tuesday, January 24, 2017

Tumbling River Ranch

Well, it only took me 7 1/2 months to blog about our awesome trip to the Tumbling River Ranch. I think it's safe to say that life has been a little bit busy.

For the last several years Bompa had been suggesting going to a dude ranch for our Sheets' family vacation.  I kept vetoing the idea because I already felt like the odd one out on vacations with the kids and couldn't imagine how it'd be fun for me when I was wrangling you little kids.  Thankfully however, last summer, after Bompa reassured me that the experience was catered to families of all ages, he signed us up for a week long adventure.  He very generously paid for the week for our whole family, it was just up to us to get outfitted.  We checked out a few cowboy type stores (in Keokuk, Iowa for Alex's boots and just south of Normal for Aimee's tiny yet expensive cowgirl boots) and ordered the rest of the boots and hats from Amazon.  I even found a few cowboy shirts for Dad at a garage sale. Not all of the guests dressed up during their stay, but we tried to and I LOVED it.  It was so fun to throw on a pair of jeans, plaid or denim shirt, bandana of choice, with my cowgirl hat and boots!

We got dressed up one night, I took each person's picture, I stitched them all together with Photoshop and put us in front of this TRR ranch background that I found online.

To sum up the whole week in a nut shell, it was one of our very favorite vacations EVER.  You kids all want to be ranchers when you grow up :0)  We spent many meals together and some activities, but many were up to our discretion.  Some of the family went shooting, others fly fishing, or horse back riding.  You kids each had your own age group with counselors leading the activities.  (Lij & Alex, you loved your counselor Sabrina!)

One thing that made the whole experience even better was Bompa paying for the nanny service for the babies.  Each day Aimee and Abi were watched by their Nanny for 8 hours so us moms and dads could truly be on vacation and take part in all the activities that we wouldn't be able to otherwise.  Laney, Aimee's nanny was the owners' oldest daughter.  She was so sweet and had a lot of fun with our sweet Aimsey.  Though, it'll be fun to go the TRR in the future when those two are older and can take part in the fun as well!



Our group was the largest one there during that given week so we got to stay in the Pueblo House.  There are a few more pictures of it at the end, but just wanted to mention now that it was SO cool.  It was built over a hundred years ago and is decorated with authentic items from that time period.




Several weeks before the trip, our family worked on little messages and treats (gold fish, trail mix, twizzlers, etc.) to leave for everyone else each night.  The first night we left a paper pocket with their name on the front and that is where we'd leave their notes.  It was so fun working with Lij and Alex on different nights to sneak around the Pueblo House and deliver.


One of the first days we dressed up in our cowboy garb to get our family pictures taken professionally by a photographer.  I couldn't help but snap a few of my own in the process, which are the ones I've posted here.

Bompa & Mémé and all the grand kids









We were taking some great goofy group pictures when we realized that Brie hadn't heard to come back over, so she wasn't pictured.  Oops!

Here's one with all of us.


FISHING: Was one of the favorite activities for you kids.  You often head down to this little lake in front of the Pueblo House to fish with Bompa, Dad, Aunt Rachie, Buck and Em.



HIKING & OFF ROADING: We went on a few hikes during our stay.  The views were beautiful!  One day we decided to do our own Sheets family outing while you kids were on an outing with your counselors.  We loaded in Bompa's suburban and headed up higher in to the mountains.  At one point we couldn't go any further because of the snow, but were thankfully able to find a spot wide enough where we could turn around.  Heading back down we blasted some country music and sang along.  Good times!






HORSE BACK RIDING and RODEO: Riding horses was one of the major activities at the ranch.  Each adult (and older children which included Brie) was assigned their own horse for the week.  On our first real ride I almost had a panic attack and was crying big ugly tears.  I was SO scared of riding this huge animal through streams and down boulders and steep mountain trails.  I just wanted to get off my horse and walk back to the ranch, but that wasn't going to happen.  I at least got to ride behind the wrangler's horse on the way back.  But what I really want to mention is in the midst of my GREAT fears I was SO proud and impressed to see my 7 year old daughter so poised, calm and in control of her horse.  Brie, you looked like a natural.  You loved riding your horse throughout the week!  I guess I do not to add that I did "get back on the horse" and went on subsequent rides.  It got a little better, but still took a lot of bravery on my part.  You boys, Alex & Lij, got to ride Cinnamon, Chief and Oakie Dokie, the children's horses.  You loved that :0)

One of the final activities of our ranch experience was taking part in a rodeo.  It was so fun to watch everyone compete in the different events, especially you kids.  You did a great job on your horses!  This was one proud mama :0)
















ROCK CLIMBING: Dad & I, and Uncle Matt & Aunt Erin did a double date one morning and joined a group in a rock climbing lesson.  Neither of us had rock climbed in several years, but we had a great time!  Dad was a natural and I was proud of myself for braving the mountain better than I braved the horse ;0)  Aunt Erin faced her fears as well.  At the end Dad and Uncle Matt raced up the mountain several times to see who was fastest.  I think Dad won first then Uncle Matt.  In any case, they were both SO quick, it was fun to watch their skill!




FINE DINING: I was really impressed by the cuisine during our stay.  We were so spoiled to have ALL of our meals provided, including amazing warm breakfasts each morning.  Two nights the adults dressed up and had nicer dinners while the kids had their own dinners (with their counselors) and played capture the flag. It was such a nice break to have delicious meals prepared and cleaned up for us.







DANCING: One of the nights we did line dancing.  It was a lot of fun, even for Brie (who danced with her crush, the owners' oldest son ;0)).  At the end of the night we were doing the limbo and unfortunately Mémé made a wrong step and seriously hurt her knee.  She was in a lot of pain and ended up having to go home early.



I wish I could remember all of the fun little details of our trip, but hopefully this entry will remind all of us what a great time we had together!  Here's to next time at the Tumbling River Ranch.

A few quotes from you kids:

"I had lots of fun with Sabrina and hanging out at the Critter Pen at morning time after breakfast.  I had some fun on the horses and playing with Sabrina at the play station.  I got to ride on horses and we got to ride in the woods.  We went to Georgetown on a train.  There was an open car that didn't have a roof and we rode on it and we could see everything!" (Alex)

"It was really fun.  I rode a horse named Chief.  And we went to Georgetown and I bought a little Beanie Boo named Rocco.  It was fun to go swimming.  We had kid dinners together.  I helped make a sign for the Square Dance night dance too.  We spent lots of time together, we went on rides together.  I made a friend named Jane." (Brie)

"I liked riding my horse, Okie Dokie, and riding another horse.  I don't know his name.  I rided another horse.  Three horses." (Lij)


Monday, January 23, 2017

Expedited workshop.

December and the beginning of January were rough for me.  There was so much going on to get us packed up and moved, then the holidays and getting settled and back in school right after.  I felt emotional and stressed and unhappy, BUT I wanted to have faith that God would help me through this part of the move too.  Thankfully the last week and a half or so things have been looking up.  I feel like we're getting settled, but beyond that I feel like the spirit has been teaching me so many things.  It's felt like an expedited workshop with lots of lessons to learn.  Though it was challenging (and still is in ways), I am very thankful for the companionship of the Holy Ghost and the way that He has been teaching me in the ways and with the timing that I've needed.

Thursday, November 10, 2016

Standing with Evan McMullin

Amidst the busyness of getting ready to move, I really would like to include in our family's history a little bit about the 2016 Presidential elections.  I have never felt so passionate about an election before.  The two main party candidates were Hillary Clinton (Democrat) and Donald Trump (Republican).  Though I know MANY people's opinion differs on the matter, I strongly opposed both candidates (because, although they may both be trying to make positive changes for our nation, I feel like they are both corrupt and immoral.) and was so relieved when Evan McMullin, a 3rd party came in to play campaigning for a conservative party and a return to the constitution.  As I shared more and more with dad, he also got involved.  It was a great day when we went to vote together for Evan McMullin, feeling that we were voting for an honorable and courageous man.  The thing that was hardest for me during this election season was seeing how many people were bashing and bullying people who didn't feel the same way as them.  It gave me a lot of compassion for people in a minority who are persecuted and picked on.  And it helped me to dig deep and choose to be Christian in my responses. Long story short, the elections were a few days ago and I was SHOCKED and disappointed to see Donald Trump take the lead and when the elections!  Especially since he has shown so much hatred, sexim and racism, prejudice, bullying and intolerance over the course of his campaign :0( But grateful to see hundreds of thousands of people vote for Evan!!  And, as I voice at the bottom of this post, I am going to allow Trump's victory to help me strive even more to be a more loving and  compassionate person.  And I will pray for him and his leadership.  We will indeed need God to Bless America!

I am seriously impressed by Evan McMullin who would courageously run for office, at what appears an unseemly time, because he hopes to provide our country with a morally sound leader and a president who would uphold the Constitution with integrity!

August 17 · Twibbon · 
Miracles can happen especially if we act in faith. It's not too late to support someone who we truly believe in.

Sarah Graden updated her profile picture.
August 27 · 


August 29 · 
I have a very similar sentiment.



Lessons From Daniel and Why I'm Not Afraid of November 9, 2016 | RedState
I’ve been re-reading the story of Daniel (Daniel 1:1-21; 6:1-28). Daniel is an inspiration and an example of living by principle. He honored his God and the principles of his…


Evan McMullin is gaining ground and exposure. Take a look at what he had to say about the debacle...I mean debate last night.

I think this is a wonderful avenue to give a voice and provide better options to much of the country who are dissatisfied with the two main party candidates this election. Please read and send an email if you feel like this goes along with your sentiment and convictions.


I'm sorry, just can't help but share a little comic relief during this crazy election time.
Jessica Alene Andrew March 1 · 
For the indecisive voter: behold Clump.





I am not in support of Hillary or Trump but wow am I astonished by how absolutely biased ABCNews is in covering this debate. They might as well be part of Hillary's campaign. #ShameonABCNews

Needed to read this today when my patience is running thin in a variety of areas.



I'm saddened and disappointed by what contention the elections have brought. I feel it creeping in to my heart and thus in to my home, robbing me of needed peace and love for others. How unfortunate! It's one thing to take a stand for your beliefs and to promote them, but a very different thing to bully others in a brash and abrasive way with the interest of them bending their will to yours. May God bless us that as we each make the personal decision of how to cast our vote, that in spite of our differences, we will conduct ourselves in such a manner that our relationships will be stronger because of the respect and consideration we have chosen to show each other.

It happened in 1825 with John Quincy Adams and can happen again!

In relation to the elections, I had the thought yesterday that God is the master conductor leading a very large orchestra, performing a very complex piece at a crucial time. My job is to be in line with the conductor, playing my individual part. It may be different than those around me but it is my job to play strong, to graciously allow others to do the same, and watch as God's masterpiece unfolds.

Sarah Graden updated her profile picture.
November 3 at 3:29pm · 



My friend said it well and I feel it is important to share with so many of you who live in the key-to-the-election state of UTAH. Interpret it the way that you feel is right in your heart and brings you peace. I know we all have our own decision to make.

The race really looks to be narrowing and Utah is key! What seemed like the impossible is truly in the realm of possibility. I invite you to take a serious look at Evan McMullin if you haven't yet. He, like every other candidate and human being, is not perfect, but definitely is striving to bring us back to our inspired constitution and our roots as a nation.

My husband and I just voted here in Illinois. We're so happy to write in Evan and stand up for what we believe! God bless America.
(Shared on the Private Group--Americans for Evan McMullin---I mentioned on Facebook that I had voted, but left it at that. Anyone that was following me KNEW who I was voting for and at that point didn't want any more statements about wasting my vote)





https://www.facebook.com/images/emoji.php/v5/f66/1/16/1f493.png💓 this!! (I hope to do this too!)


Chad HymaNovember 6 at 11:14am ·
in any bashing or hateful behavior. I will continue to do my best to be accountable for my life and serve those around me. I will not be part of the problem and will do everything I can to be part of the cure! I will NOT lose connections with loved ones over politics.
AND I will continue to stand up for the equal rights for every man, woman, and child. I will do everything in my power to make sure that there is a loving and safe environment for the diversity we are blessed to enjoy in this country. I will continue to notice and heal where I have fear, anger, and hate in my heart. I will keep bringing the awareness of my own predjudice, racism and sexism to the light of day so it can be examined and transformed. I will step outside of only loving and respecting like minded people, to bring that love and respect to those who have different world views and experiences. Love and peace to ALL of you!


Apparently the kids "voted" at school today. Alex announced, with a bit of disappointment, that he voted for Ronald Trump because he didn't know how to spell Evan Mcnolan.

Yesterday at elementary school my kids "voted" for President. My kindergartner announced, with a bit of disappointment, that he voted for Ronald Trump because he didn't know how to spell Evan McNolan . Don't suffer the same fate; go to the ballots prepared!

(Shared on the Private Group--Americans for Evan McMullin)

(Shared on the Private Group--Americans for Evan McMullin)
This morning as I was putting away dishes a sacrament hymn popped in my mind. I hummed the tune but couldn't remember all of the lyrics. Just now as I looked them up, I was particularly touched by the 3rd verse and thought it was very fitting for today,
"As now we praise thy name with song, The blessings of this day Will linger in our thankful hearts, And silently we pray For courage to accept thy will, To listen and obey. We love thee, Lord; our hearts are full. We’ll walk thy chosen way." ("As Now We Take the Sacrament" hymn 169)
Regardless of the outcome of today (though still fervently praying for a miracle!!) may we all continue to press forward in faith in God, knowing that He will provide and protect us as we choose to follow Him.

November 9, 2016
(I posted this on Instagram (#Foxnews2016) during the elections in hopes of it being seen among the thousands of other "voting" pictures people were sharing on social media)





3 hrs · 
If you don't walk as most people do,
Some people walk away from you,
But I won't! I won't!
If you don't talk as most people do,
Some people talk and laugh at you,
But I won't! I won't!
I'll walk with you. I'll talk with you.
That's how I'll show my love for you.
Jesus walked away from none.
He gave his love to ev'ryone.
So I will! I will!
Jesus blessed all he could see,
Then turned and said, "Come, follow me."
And I will! I will!
I will! I will!
I'll walk with you. I'll talk with you.
That's how I'll show my love for you.
Words: Carol Lynn Pearson, b. 1939. (c) 1987 IRI
Music: Reid N. Nibley, b. 1923. (c) 1987 IRI

2 hrs · 
This sums up a lot of what I've been thinking the last few days.
Let's protest with our kindness and compassion, let's show with our service that sexism, racism and abuse WILL NOT PREVAIL!






 I also want to add how wonderful it was to be a part of the Americans for Evan McMullin private group on Facebook.  It was a mixed group of people (races, religions, political affiliations) who came together with the goal of supporting and promoting a man who with integrity stood on a solid moral foundation, courageously calling for liberty and a much needed return to our nation's roots and constituion.  That page was a place of love and goodness and support of the grassroots campaign that we were all a part of.  I was so impressed by the civility and camaraderie and respect.  And though many people thought  it was only LDS Utahns "voting blindly" for McMullin, this group was evidence that there was a whole movement around the United States of people not willing to accept the two major parties and standing for which they believed.