So at Brie's 9 month checkup our PA was going through the list of developmental milestones and asked if she had started clapping and waving. It caught me off guard because Brie has always been "on track" with her previous checkups, but I really couldn't recall ever seeing her doing either. He didn't seem worried and just moved on to the next questions. But what do you think we've been working on ever since? :0) This week she has started to clap and to wave...I'll admit I was a bit relieved to see that she had reached those milestones, but more than that it's SO cute! Isn't it funny how such little things can seem so victorious and exciting?
I have to admit that it's so hard for me not to compare Brie with other kids...look he's taller...Brie's so much smaller...he's walking...she's only crawling, etc. The last time we went in for a checkup I was asking how Brie COMPARED. Our PA assured me that it wasn't about how she measured up to everyone else but how her own curve looked.
Last Sunday---don't worry I'm tying this all in :0)---I bore my testimony in church...it had been a LONG time. I can't even remember the last time I got up to share my testimony. In any case, I shared the experience I'd had at Brie's check up and how it got me thinking... we are so quick to compare ourselves to others and worry that we don't measure up, but God doesn't compare at all He just looks at our own personal curve of progression to see how we're doing. It was a good reminder. A good reminder to not get so down on myself when I don't "measure up" and to give others the benefit of the doubt when they seem to be "falling short."
Pink Moon Palette
1 year ago


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Thank you, Sarah. I remember feeling a little freaked out at one of Julia's appointments because she wasn't rolling over yet, or hadn't figured out crawling, etc. I'm learning to trust Julia and her own little developmental curve more and more as we go...probably something many mothers experience. Nice to know I'm not the only one. :)
Yes, not comparing up or down to other's progress but just to our own curve and how we are doing. I love how you said it. It is wonderful to know that God is perfect and loves us perfectly. Once that is established, so many things fall into harmony and make such beautiful sense. Thank you for sharing.
Sarie! I sure love your comments--what a wonderful, amazing wife! :) xoxo
Thanks for your testimony, Sarah! I need that reminder, and it's such a relief.
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